The Secret of Creating Your Self Confidence
By Watthana
Everything has to start somewhere. However, making some important changes in your life must start with the power within yourself. If you don’t start to develop self-confidence.
The result that you will get is:
– You will suffer endlessly with the things you fear because you lack confidence or have low self-confidence.
Your self-confidence is the accumulation of all your reactions to the experiences life brings to you, including the advice, perspectives, and thoughts that are gained and accumulated from the environment around you. What is your view on society? There are a number of factors that will help you understand your self-confidence level.
What are your expectations of yourself and what should your life be like? This is one of the deciding factors. Many people tend to fall into the trap of creating unrealistic expectations. In the process, the disappointment they received was considered so painful that they eventually suffered a psychological impact. As a result, they have lower self-confidence.
A new trend now, another group of people started creating goals that were simpler and more attainable. Because they discover that each success often increases their self-confidence, these people benefit from learning what they can do if they want to be successful.
You may have heard the phrase “Everything arises from the mind”. It is deeply rooted and thrives within the mind. Therefore, the antidote to the mental and emotional states. We can say that this antidote comes from the same source: the mind.
You can adjust yourself to feel what you want or don’t want. You can suppress your emotions and help create realism in your mind. Let’s say you want to create a sense of self-hatred that isn’t good enough. If you convince yourself to hate and seriously believe that you are not good enough.
You will get only two consequences. One is the aversion that arises from your self-created feelings, and the other is your declining self-confidence.
The center of self-confidence is your self-belief. Everything you intend to believe will be seen as true, so you only have to deal with what you want to believe. Otherwise, the wait cannot change you. Motivation must come from you. Offers or recommendations may come from external sources. But in the end, you have to start to change on your own.
There are 4 ways you can build your self-confidence.
#1. Learn and develop
If you want to build confidence and make something better. Devoting energy to building a specific area of expertise. Not sure what you want to be an expert on? You need to consider what your strengths and talents are.
Most of us fail to examine what we keep under our subconscious. You probably didn’t mean to say it recently. But since you’re used to hearing yourself mutter, “I’m a loser” or “I don’t deserve anything.” Your subconscious will believe that these things are true.
How many times have you said “I am worthless” or “I am useless” to yourself or to my friends? that’s not true. Everyone is born to achieve a purpose.
You just have to find it. It all starts with what you love to do, like drawing, cooking, teaching, and building stuff. or solving complex mathematical equations, etc., wherever your interests are. You can become an expert. All you need is patience.
The more you can do, the more confident you become.
The first step is the hardest.
The important thing is you have to jump in faith and find the courage to take the first step. You’ll find the road ahead much easier.
Practice perfectly:
– keep working and your self-confidence will increase in no time.
– determine the challenges and goals you can achieve to build self-confidence.
Changes must begin with you.
You need to start talking to yourself using positive words like “You’re awesome” (because you’re a great person, waiting for your talent to be discovered) or “you are beautiful” (because you believe in this, each of us was created beautifully as a gift to our Creator.)
#2. We don’t live in a perfect world
So don’t try to make it perfect. We all make mistakes that are normal.
Don’t convince yourself that you won’t make mistakes because you’re going to be doing it in a world where nothing is perfect. If you didn’t make a mistake at least sometimes Show that you are not trying to do something new. don’t be afraid of mistakes Think of mistakes as learning opportunities. Try to learn from those mistakes.
#3. Always believe in you
Do what is comfortable and suitable for you.
It’s the best boost to your self-confidence that you can do for yourself. What’s important is that you are content with and accept who you are. You have hidden powers and are ready to change your destiny if you use them. You should accept who you are. What are the strengths and weaknesses? Learn your limitations and strive to improve yourself. Yes, you can.
#4. Avoid Negativity
Are you a “Glass half-full” or a “Glass half-empty” kind of person? Avoid negative thoughts and look for positives in different situations. You’ll feel a more powerful, positive energy to build your self-confidence.
You can’t dwell on the disappointments of the past for long because of low self-confidence, so you need to change your perspective and live in the present looking forward to the better for your life.
